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Why is self disclosure important? builds trust, teaches principles, instills hope and shows
client you understand what they're saying.
Tips for using self-disclosure Keep it relevant; stay focused on the needs of helpee; keep it
positive and not too personal
Cautions for self-disclosure Don't trivialize the Helpee's problem; do not overuse it; do
not take focus off the Helpee; do not use it to meet your own needs
Use self-disclosure effectively Identify the specific needs of the Helpee; make sure its
relevant; make sure concluding thoughts meet the Helpee's needs
what is immediacy? promotes direct communication; focuses on the "here and now";
picking up body language; allowing the Helpee to talk about current feelings
why is immediacy important? Helps bring attention to subconscious issues not being
resolved; helps to bring focus to avoidance; can help the Helpee to see things in a more direct
manner
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when to use immediacy client is checking time or looking around, or seems distracted;
client seems irritable or is clearly upset but denying it
using anchors directing attention to physical body language the client is using (hands
moving, glancing away) as a means to direct the conversation to why they are doing it
when to use immediacy if it will help the situation and not cause conflict;
what is personal reaction? sharing personal thoughts or feelings if you believe it will
benefit the client
cautions with personal reaction do not overuse because it can be annoying and lose
effectiveness
Peace of conscience, peace of mind God wants his children to enjoy peace of conscience;
it provides a foundation for happiness; peace of conscience leads to peace of mind; you can
regain peace of conscience through repentance; forgive those who have transgressed against you;