What is etiquette? - Answers the customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a
particular profession or group
What should you do before you eat? - Answers shake hands with people attending luncheon
When should you sit down? - Answers Remain standing until the host or hostess has been seated (make
sure you get to know your host/hostess, and remember their name)
How should you sit in your chair? - Answers Don't slouch, squirm, or tilt your chair.
Where SHOULDN'T you put your items? - Answers don't place purses, keys, gloves, etc. on the table
When should you place your napkin in your lap? - Answers Once everyone is seated, and your host has
moved their napkin, place your napkin in your lap.
how shouldn't you open your napkin? - Answers don't flap the napkin to open it or place it on the table
before the meal has ended
what shouldn't you do when ordering your meal - Answers don't ask too many questions about the
menu and don't order the most expensive item on the menu
what should you not drink? - Answers alcohol
What should you make sure not to do when drinking from a glass? - Answers don't leave lipstick smears
on your glass
When is it ok to smoke? - Answers refrain from smoking at all times
How should you butter your bread? - Answers don't butter all the bread at once- tear off each piece and
butter it before you eat it
where should you place your solids and liquids? - Answers remember to place solids on your left and
liquids on your right
how should your table be set? - Answers plate in the middle, forks and napkin to the left, knife and
spoon to the right, small plate and butter spreader above the plate, and drinks to your right above the
plate.
how do you cut your meat? - Answers cut your meat or meal one piece at a time
how do you cut your salad? - Answers cut your salad into bite-size pieces
how should you NOT hold your knife and fork? - Answers don't hold your knife like a dagger and the fork
like a cello
how do you place your cutlery? - Answers don't place cutlery, once used, put back on the table
, how do you hold your knife? - Answers hold your knife with the thumb and three fingers, keeping the
index finger extended on the handle
How should you use the sauce if needed to share with others? - Answers when sharing a sauce with
others, spoon some onto your plate; don't dip your food into it
what should you do if you burp? - Answers touch your napkin to your lips, and say "pardon me," to no
one in particular
should you keep your elbows off the table? - Answers yes
what shouldn't you do while eating? - Answers don't pick or poke at your teeth when at the table
where should you put your silverware when speaking? - Answers when you speak, place your silverware
on your plate, not the table
what is something you should not do when speaking? - Answers don't speak with your mouth full
What should you avoid talking about? - Answers avoid talking about religion, politics and other
controversial topics
what should you do when speaking to others? - Answers maintain good eye contact
what should you do while eating your meal? - Answers take your time eating, talking, and especially
listening to everyone at the table
what should you do while you're eating? - Answers don't over indulge; this is not your last meal, and
don't ask to finish anyone else's food, but don't forego the meal
what kind of food should you NOT order? - Answers don't order any foods that could cause messes
what should you not do to your utensils or fingers? - Answers don't lick your utensils or fingers
Should you be the first or last to finish your meal? - Answers don't be the first or the last to finish your
meal
what should you do if you spill something on someone else? - Answers if you spill something on
someone else, apologize and offer to pay for dry cleaning, but let the other person handle the wiping
and blotting
what should you do if you spill something? - Answers if you spill something, don't make a big deal out of
it. Blot it with your napkin, and ask for another one
what should you commonly say? - Answers say "please" and "thank you," people do notice
what should you do after the meal? - Answers don't argue over the check or offer to pay the tip; the
host who invited you must take care of both