Coercive Behaviors - Answers -Goal of the batterer is to exert power over and control the victim
-typically stems from feelings of entitlement to have his needs and desires met
Coercive Behaviors Includes - Answers -Physical injury or threat
-Sexual assault
-Psychological abuse
-Economic control
-Social Isolation
-Stalking
-Destruction of property
-Abuse of pets
Power and Control Wheel - Answers -Demonstrates factors that come into an abusive relationship
Those at Greatest Risk - Answers -Women - single, separated, divorced
-Risk of abuse goes UP when victim leaves
-Adolescents & young adults
-Poor
-Alcohol or drug abuse homes
-Pregnancy of those previous abused
-Excessively jealous/possessive partners
Prevalence of Intimate Partner Violence - Answers Lesbian < heterosexual females
Gay males > Heterosexual males
-most likely predictor is someone who is verbally abusive
Effects on Self - Answers -Narcissistic fantasies of invincibility are central (this is normal) - Traumatic
events shatter these fantasies
, -Subjective experience of trauma is a shattering of a person's beliefs about self - strength of self is
gradually eroded
Behavioral Dynamics of Abusive Relationship - Answers -Generally not violent initially
-Limbically driven dynamics, not cortical
-Abuser needs the abusee for one's own psychological reasons (self esteem or emotional regulation)
-Generally one-way (or one person is afraid)
-victims often do not look "battered"
-Reluctant to disclose info (shame or fear)
-Underlying problem is NOT substance abuse or anger management if directed at one specific person
Cycle of Violence - Answers -Violence
-Apologies and promises of change.
-Followed by variable period of increased tension
-After victim feels hopeful - abused again
Reasons to Stay - Answers -Social status & financial security
-Long term relationship (I put in all this effort - what if they change)
-Not always bad (sometimes they are nice)
-Belief that leaving would be worse
Often ambivalent of leaving vs. staying
Why Victims Stay: Fear - Answers -Threaten
-More victims murdered after obtaining restraining order or while in the process of leaving than any
other time
-If victim leaves, doesn't know what abuser is planning
Why Victims Stay: Social Isolation - Answers -Abuser contain restricts ability of victim to communicate
with friends/family
-Being hurt/afraid increases attachment needs
-Isolation leaves victim psychologically dependent on batterer