CMS 315M INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION: TEST
#2: QUESTIONS WITH VERIFIED ANSWERS
Pick-Ups and Love: stages of pickups - Answers - 1. assess qualifiers: What makes him
attractive: 2 parts
2.assess avaliablility: They have to be avaliable to want to meet
3. Find an Opener: 3 parts
4. Find an integrated topic
5. Present a better self: Positive version of yourself
6. Schedule a second encounter
Stages of pick ups: Find an Opener:
What are 3 types of openers? - Answers - 1. Innocuous: Can you pass me that drink
2. Fillipant: Sound good when drunk
3. Direct ApproachL Hello, want to meet up tonight
(men initiate more then woman, but when "in control", there)
Stages of pick ups: Access Qualifiers:
What are 2 types of qualifiers? - Answers - 1. extraordinary: things that they have that
others don't (olympic medal)
2. esoteric: things that people don't know about them (unusual language)
Pick-Ups and love:
What are three types of love, and what are there parts? - Answers - 1. Passionate
-Altriusm: Do anything for them
-Attractiveness: you view them as more attractive
2. Companionate: bestfriend:
-respect
-congeniality: Good with eachother, make eachother
3. Committment: for better or for worse, take care of them no matter what:
- Fidelity-faithful
-Responsibility: you have to
What are correlates of falling in love? (5 parts) - Answers - 1. Romanticism: unrealistic
beliefs about a relationship
2. Love experiences: Woman usually have more
3. Timing: men usually fall in love first, woman have to be more careful because pf
pregnancy
4. Physical attraction matters: men are harsher to judge woman
5. Partner idealization: Woman idealize partner longer for a longer period of time
, What are ways to make love stick? 3 ways - Answers - 1. Positive illusions matter: may
not be true but convinced it's true: woman have stronger positive illusions. men only
have positive illusions if they're committed
2. Respect and Trust: You don't need to like someone, but you need to see where
they're coming from and rrspect them
3. Continued engagement: continuously work on a relationship to make it last
What are 4 ways we can link sex? - Answers - 1. Sex and Communication
2. Sex and Romance
3. Sex and Life Span
4. Gender differences and sex
Explain Sex and Communication: - Answers - Talk about likes and dislikes, better
sexual relationship = better overall satisfaction. Talking abotu sex is good.
Explain Sex and Romance - Answers - Sexual intimacy and desire for frequent sex.
Having more sex won't make relationship better bc increased frequency led to a decline
in enjoyment:
Monogamy: Makes sex more comfortable
Sexual satisfaction: Martitial satisfaction
Explain sex and life span - Answers - -many have little or no sex
-frequency decreases
-no decrease in satisfaction with sex
-children and frequency of sex, children ruin sex
Explain Gender differences and sex - Answers - in general, men and woman view sex
differently
Why do people have regrets about sex? (6) - Answers - 1. inconsistent with morals
2. alochol influenced decisions
3. realized they didn't want to same thing as their partner
4. failed to use a condom
5. felt pressured by partner
6. had planned to wait until marriage
What are two types of shyness? - Answers - 1. Dispositional: shy all the time, it's a trait
2. Situational: everyone experiences this type of shyness based on their setting
What are correlates of dispositional shyness? (3) - Answers - 1. Educational
2. Occupational
3. Relational
Explain educational shyness correlate: - Answers - shy people are placed in school
reading groups because shyness "affects" their reading ability. Shyer people are given
#2: QUESTIONS WITH VERIFIED ANSWERS
Pick-Ups and Love: stages of pickups - Answers - 1. assess qualifiers: What makes him
attractive: 2 parts
2.assess avaliablility: They have to be avaliable to want to meet
3. Find an Opener: 3 parts
4. Find an integrated topic
5. Present a better self: Positive version of yourself
6. Schedule a second encounter
Stages of pick ups: Find an Opener:
What are 3 types of openers? - Answers - 1. Innocuous: Can you pass me that drink
2. Fillipant: Sound good when drunk
3. Direct ApproachL Hello, want to meet up tonight
(men initiate more then woman, but when "in control", there)
Stages of pick ups: Access Qualifiers:
What are 2 types of qualifiers? - Answers - 1. extraordinary: things that they have that
others don't (olympic medal)
2. esoteric: things that people don't know about them (unusual language)
Pick-Ups and love:
What are three types of love, and what are there parts? - Answers - 1. Passionate
-Altriusm: Do anything for them
-Attractiveness: you view them as more attractive
2. Companionate: bestfriend:
-respect
-congeniality: Good with eachother, make eachother
3. Committment: for better or for worse, take care of them no matter what:
- Fidelity-faithful
-Responsibility: you have to
What are correlates of falling in love? (5 parts) - Answers - 1. Romanticism: unrealistic
beliefs about a relationship
2. Love experiences: Woman usually have more
3. Timing: men usually fall in love first, woman have to be more careful because pf
pregnancy
4. Physical attraction matters: men are harsher to judge woman
5. Partner idealization: Woman idealize partner longer for a longer period of time
, What are ways to make love stick? 3 ways - Answers - 1. Positive illusions matter: may
not be true but convinced it's true: woman have stronger positive illusions. men only
have positive illusions if they're committed
2. Respect and Trust: You don't need to like someone, but you need to see where
they're coming from and rrspect them
3. Continued engagement: continuously work on a relationship to make it last
What are 4 ways we can link sex? - Answers - 1. Sex and Communication
2. Sex and Romance
3. Sex and Life Span
4. Gender differences and sex
Explain Sex and Communication: - Answers - Talk about likes and dislikes, better
sexual relationship = better overall satisfaction. Talking abotu sex is good.
Explain Sex and Romance - Answers - Sexual intimacy and desire for frequent sex.
Having more sex won't make relationship better bc increased frequency led to a decline
in enjoyment:
Monogamy: Makes sex more comfortable
Sexual satisfaction: Martitial satisfaction
Explain sex and life span - Answers - -many have little or no sex
-frequency decreases
-no decrease in satisfaction with sex
-children and frequency of sex, children ruin sex
Explain Gender differences and sex - Answers - in general, men and woman view sex
differently
Why do people have regrets about sex? (6) - Answers - 1. inconsistent with morals
2. alochol influenced decisions
3. realized they didn't want to same thing as their partner
4. failed to use a condom
5. felt pressured by partner
6. had planned to wait until marriage
What are two types of shyness? - Answers - 1. Dispositional: shy all the time, it's a trait
2. Situational: everyone experiences this type of shyness based on their setting
What are correlates of dispositional shyness? (3) - Answers - 1. Educational
2. Occupational
3. Relational
Explain educational shyness correlate: - Answers - shy people are placed in school
reading groups because shyness "affects" their reading ability. Shyer people are given
