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Lament for a Son" by Nicholas Wolterstorff is a touching reflection on the profound grief he
experienced after the sudden death of his son, Eric. This paper will analyze Wolterstorff's
reflections, while addressing Kubler-Ross's five stages of grief as it is laid out in the book, and
explore the medical and philosophical meanings of death. Additionally, it will examine how
Wolterstorff finds joy after his great loss, the role of hope of resurrection had in comforting
him, the significance of death viewed by Christian, and the importance of understanding the
grieving processes through different faith traditions.
In medical terminology death, is the cessation of all biological functions that sustain a
living organism (“What is the medical definition of death?” 2009) Philosophically, death can be
seen as the end of an individual's existence here on earth, raising questions about the meaning of
life and what, if anything, comes after. In "Lament for a Son," Wolterstorff begins to really
struggle with this loss and he finds himself reflecting on the reality and impact of his son's death.
Wolterstorff’s son dies tragically in a climbing accident at the young age of 25. This death was
very sudden and unexpected which can often add to the struggles that come with grief.
In order to really understand the grief process one must understand the five stages of
grief the first stage of grief denial, anger bargaining, depression, and acceptance. These stages