characteristics of enduring relationships: intimacy
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not just physical intimacy ex: a look across the room
Direct reference
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Directly referencing the person you're talking to "Hi Mia"
Characteristics of Rumors Accuracy
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do research - tiny code of truth
Communication is irreversible
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you can't ever take something back
ex: mom said " i wish you were never born" will remember it till the day you
die
Immediate topic initiation
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Referencing why you wanted to talk
"Well the reason I wanted to talk to you today is.."
Charisma
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it is a perception not a reality - you are given it, not born with it
Attribution theory
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Theory addressing whether an action is due to factors that are part of the
situation or inherent to the person
Characteristics of Gossip Short-lived
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most gossip goes away quickly
How do be define charisma?
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perceived, hard to define `
Managing an impression
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we try to look good for the person we are meeting - physically and socially
warmth: how nice u are
competence: how smart u are
Self-fulfilling prophecy
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What you think gradually becomes how others behave and thus reinforces
what you think - cycle repeats
Verbal Indicators of immediacy
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Express oneself more openly, express the imp. Of a relationship, "we"
phrases, being sensitive to other communicators
Selective attention Utility
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useful - we pay attention if it is useful to us
Relational Contradictions: Optimality vs Satisfaction
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people settle with "good enough"
optimality = perfect / satisfaction = good enough
perfect = pressure (perfect grades)
when u have a 4.0 u are pressured to keep it
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not just physical intimacy ex: a look across the room
Direct reference
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Directly referencing the person you're talking to "Hi Mia"
Characteristics of Rumors Accuracy
,Give this one a try later!
do research - tiny code of truth
Communication is irreversible
Give this one a try later!
you can't ever take something back
ex: mom said " i wish you were never born" will remember it till the day you
die
Immediate topic initiation
Give this one a try later!
Referencing why you wanted to talk
"Well the reason I wanted to talk to you today is.."
Charisma
Give this one a try later!
it is a perception not a reality - you are given it, not born with it
Attribution theory
,Give this one a try later!
Theory addressing whether an action is due to factors that are part of the
situation or inherent to the person
Characteristics of Gossip Short-lived
Give this one a try later!
most gossip goes away quickly
How do be define charisma?
Give this one a try later!
perceived, hard to define `
Managing an impression
Give this one a try later!
we try to look good for the person we are meeting - physically and socially
warmth: how nice u are
competence: how smart u are
Self-fulfilling prophecy
, Give this one a try later!
What you think gradually becomes how others behave and thus reinforces
what you think - cycle repeats
Verbal Indicators of immediacy
Give this one a try later!
Express oneself more openly, express the imp. Of a relationship, "we"
phrases, being sensitive to other communicators
Selective attention Utility
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useful - we pay attention if it is useful to us
Relational Contradictions: Optimality vs Satisfaction
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people settle with "good enough"
optimality = perfect / satisfaction = good enough
perfect = pressure (perfect grades)
when u have a 4.0 u are pressured to keep it
