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Conflict - CORRECT ANSWER- "Expressed Struggle", not all conflict is damaging.
A perceived incompatibility of actions, goals, or ideas.
Avoidance
(Conflict Style) - CORRECT ANSWER- Either avoiding the subject, person talking
(Not going to a party, changing the subject, in order to not see/talk with
someone)
Lose - Lose, does not solve the problem, and damages relationships, but can be
good to avoid poor timing for discussion. Ex: Not telling your friend to make her
girlfriend leave, since you don't like conflict.
Accommodation
(Conflict Style) - CORRECT ANSWER- Letting others have what they want.
,(Giving in by letting your two college dropout friends crash at your place for an
undisclosed amount of time in order to not damage your friendship).
Good for relationships short term
Compromise
(Conflict Style) - CORRECT ANSWER- Both parties give something up in return.
Ask: "Why do you want what you want?" However, they don't get everything they
want.
Competing
(Conflict Style) - CORRECT ANSWER- "We'll do it my way", aggressive behavior, not the
best for relationships, can get physical, if not ugly. Can be fast.
Can be subtle, eating alone to win an argument to make others feel bad. (Passive
Aggressive).
Collaborating
(Conflict Style) - CORRECT ANSWER- Working together to make everybody happy, not
always successful. Can take too long, but helps build mutual trust.
Criticism
, (Horseman of the Apocalypse) - CORRECT ANSWER- "You" statements that attach the
reciever's character.
"You always...", "You never....", "Why are you so........."
Defensiveness
(Horseman of the Apocalypse) - CORRECT ANSWER- Playing the victim, making excuses,
disagreeing, cross-complaining.
("I didn't do.....", "It's not fair", "I did this because you did that....")
(Repeating yourself without paying attention to what the other person is saying).
Contempt
(Horseman of the Apocalypse) - CORRECT ANSWER- Attacking the other's sense of self.
- Crude name-calling ("Bitch", "stupid", "lazy", "wimp").
- Hostile humor
- Curling your upper lip, sneering.
Stonewalling
(Horseman of the Apocalypse) - CORRECT ANSWER- Avoiding the other entirely.
Conveys disapproval, and smugness.