EDU 330
Week 4 Journal
Entry 1 – Respectful Communication and Civil Discourse Principles: Explore the
principles of respectful communication and civil discourse. These should cover active
listening, empathy, nonverbal communication, providing constructive feedback, and strategies
for engaging respectfully in conversations on contentious topics.
Active listening is an essential aspect of respectful communication. It involves fully
engaging with the speaker, understanding their message, responding thoughtfully, and
remembering key details for future discussions. By practicing empathy, individuals can
connect on a deeper level, fostering a respectful atmosphere that promotes open
dialogue (Davis,2018). Nonverbal communication encompassing body language, facial
expressions, gestures, and tone of voice is vital for conveying respect and attentiveness
during conversations. Conversely, negative nonverbal cues can disrupt discussions and
escalate tensions. Constructive feedback is designed to offer insights that help others
improve their ideas or actions while maintaining their dignity. This method typically
involves using “I” statements to express feelings and thoughts, avoiding accusatory
language, and suggesting alternative solutions. By nurturing a culture of learning and
growth, constructive feedback minimizes defensiveness and encourages collaboration.
Entry 2 - Reflection on Communication Habits: Reflect on your current communication
habits, focusing on strengths and areas for improvement. Consider any previous experiences
with civil discourse, especially in discussions involving diverse opinions or contentious
, subjects. Discuss how you can demonstrate respect to people without affirming or agreeing
with views or beliefs that contradict your own.
My current communication habits showcase both strengths and areas for growth,
especially when it comes to engaging in civil discourse with diverse perspectives. One of
my key strengths is my active listening ability. I make deliberate effort to listen carefully
to others, allowing them to fully articulate their viewpoints before I respond. This
approach aligns with effective communication principles that prioritize respect and
understanding (Rogers & Farson, 1987). By genuinely hearing others, I can engage more
meaningfully with their ideas instead of simple formulating my counterarguments. On the
other hand, I have recognized that my tendency to become defensive can obstruct open
dialogue, particularly on sensitive topics like politics or social issues. In a recent
community debate, I found myself interrupting those who held opposing views, driven by
a need to defend my own beliefs. This behavior not only interrupted the discussion but
also fostered an atmosphere of tension and bitterness. (Nussbaum, 2010). To improve my
communication skills, I focus on showing respect for differing opinions, even when I
don’t agree with them. One effective strategy is to acknowledge the other person’s
viewpoint before sharing my own. While my perspective differs, I respect your right to
hold your beliefs. “This method validates their opinion while allowing me to express my
own, paving the way for a respectful dialogue despite our differences. I can enhance my
communication by being mindful of non-verbal signals, such as maintaining an open
posture and making eye contact, which signal openness and respect (Floyd, 2011). It’s
also important to manage my tone; speaking in a calm and composed manner can
significantly contribute to a more constructive exchange.