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Demandingness -Demandingness (aka "behavioral control") - Baumrind (1991, pp. 61-62)
"the claims parents make on children to become integrated into the family whole, by their
maturity demands, supervision, disciplinary efforts, and willingness to confront the child who
disobeys"
-Demandingness and confidence in character
-Demandingness and competence
-Discipline
-Approving of and modeling positive, prosocial behavior
-Inductions
Internalizing parents' approval helps child get more praise, and makes them feel bad for
wrongdoing even in parent's absence
,-Weighed against impulsiveness
-(And reaction to treatment history)
-Older children and rule explanations, natural consequences, flexibility
-Includes expressing disappointment and sadness or anger
-But from place of self-control, complaint about behavior rather than criticizing person
-With positive foundation, can rely primarily on positive reinforcement
Parenting Styles -Authoritative
- balanced responsiveness and control
-inductive approach to discipline (explain why behavior is bad)
-Authoritarian
-low responsiveness, high control
-cold and harsh, power-oriented approach, violent and/or manipulative
,-Permissive (aka permissive-indulgent)
-high responsiveness, low control
-parent can't stand to fight with child, withdraw from responsibility
-Uninvolved (aka permissive-neglectful)
-low responsiveness and control
-abnormal, parent neglects child (could be untreated depression, addiction)
-Steinberg (2001) quarter century research summary - "We Know Some Things" •
-Better or worse versions of authoritarian parenting
-Angry, hostile, aggressive parent or controlling parent - very negative and oppressive
-Vs coming from a place of care and safety in an unsafe environment or training for success -
more advantageous than it might otherwise be
-Gottman's similar version of parenting types and upcoming parenting advice
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child Gottman Book -Emotional intelligence
, -Advantages of emotional intelligence
-ability to identify and manage your own and others' emotions
-"Emotion coaching" parents
-teach kids to have emotional intelligence
Non-Emotion Coaching Parenting Types -Parents either give in to, object to, or ignore
children's negative emotions
-Baumrind's permissive parent similar to Gottman's Laissez-Faire parent - The one that gives in
to children's negative emotions
-(Baumrind's uninvolved parent just didn't show up for his research)
-Parents who disapprove of children's negative emotions, parents who are just dismissive of
children's negative emotions
-Parents who disapprove of children's negative emotions, parents who are just dismissive of
children's negative emotions