Self-disclosure = revealing personal information about yourself – important for initial attraction
Social penetration theory: (Altman and Taylor 1973)
Involves self-disclosure
Gradual revealing of inner self – deepest thoughts and feelings
Reciprocal
Displays trust – sharing sensitive info
‘Penetrate’ into each other’s lives when more and more info is revealed
Breadth and depth of self-disclosure:
Both increase commitment to a relationship
At beginning:
Lots of info disclosed, but it is ‘low-risk’ and ‘superficial’ info (like first layer of an onion)
Breadth is narrow – many topics are ‘off-limits’ as they may be TMI or threaten relationship
Developed relationship:
More layers revealed – depth
True self shown
Revealed intimate, high-risk info e.g. secrets, painful memories/experiences etc
Reciprocity:
Reis and Shaver (1988) say there needs to be a reciprocal element to disclosure
Exchange of info between partners
Balance of self-disclosure between partners for it to be successful
Increases intimacy and deepens relationship
EVALUATION;
Support from research studies:
Sprecher and Hendrick studied heterosexual couples – found strong correlations between satisfaction
and self-disclosure
Laurenceau et al found link between self-disclosure and higher levels of intimacy in long-term married
couples – used diary entries to assess.
Social penetration theory: (Altman and Taylor 1973)
Involves self-disclosure
Gradual revealing of inner self – deepest thoughts and feelings
Reciprocal
Displays trust – sharing sensitive info
‘Penetrate’ into each other’s lives when more and more info is revealed
Breadth and depth of self-disclosure:
Both increase commitment to a relationship
At beginning:
Lots of info disclosed, but it is ‘low-risk’ and ‘superficial’ info (like first layer of an onion)
Breadth is narrow – many topics are ‘off-limits’ as they may be TMI or threaten relationship
Developed relationship:
More layers revealed – depth
True self shown
Revealed intimate, high-risk info e.g. secrets, painful memories/experiences etc
Reciprocity:
Reis and Shaver (1988) say there needs to be a reciprocal element to disclosure
Exchange of info between partners
Balance of self-disclosure between partners for it to be successful
Increases intimacy and deepens relationship
EVALUATION;
Support from research studies:
Sprecher and Hendrick studied heterosexual couples – found strong correlations between satisfaction
and self-disclosure
Laurenceau et al found link between self-disclosure and higher levels of intimacy in long-term married
couples – used diary entries to assess.