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Relati onshi ps - Evolu tionar y Expla nation for Partn er Prefer ence
Background :
Natural Selection Sexual Selection - \)(®.)ii\ !::!urnan Heprngy ctive 6ebavjours
, \l'\nt<i-ttu t~I\.IOL-\UiMIC.I e..l\na.oc( "9 ~UNi\lO.\ OR
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Inter-Sexua l Selection: Intra-Sexua l Selection:
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Female Mating Strategies: Male Mating Strategies:
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, Relatio nships - Factors Affectin g Attracti on
Factor 1: Self-Disclo sure
What is meant by self-disclosure in relationships?
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Breadth and Depth of Self-Disclosure : Reciprocity of Self-Disclosure :
Social Penetration Theory:
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Relati onshi ps - Evolu tionar y Expla nation for Partn er Prefer ence
Background :
Natural Selection Sexual Selection - \)(®.)ii\ !::!urnan Heprngy ctive 6ebavjours
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Inter-Sexua l Selection: Intra-Sexua l Selection:
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• Q\\.O.\\\':) C\\t { Q.'-}.U.t\\ ~ • (1_\l~\\\\~ Cl\lt, <¾\l!\.\\\\j ·
- winn er <tQ100\Hts O..I\O. QO.~::its c.~o..to..c,e.(,~t\c~ i-hO..-\
-"I tN)C)~l 0. ~'-\,"lt'I H \_)j"l)t{\ c~ie..n (t~O\.ltC.H l\~l ~d.,
\\t.\qt\\. \\it<\ w'il"\ (&t1rn9tn , ht,!1hf) to o~S~'(l"S
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Female Mating Strategies: Male Mating Strategies:
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Strengths:
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~\).t\O \~l l\ \)I n:t\\. U.l\~f, Qt\\}S\CJl\\\.} O.\\f(}_t'\ilR. ~ \t H~OO.
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Factor 1: Self-Disclo sure
What is meant by self-disclosure in relationships?
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