Factors affecting attraction: Self Disclosure
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure has a vital role in a relationship beyond the initial attraction. But most people are
careful about what they disclose, at least to begin with. Used wisely and effectively it really can help
the course of true love run smoother.
Social Penetration theory
Major concept within Irwin Altman and Dalmas Taylor’s (1973) social penetration theory of
how relationships develop.
In romantic relationships, it involves the reciprocal exchange of information between
intimate partners. When 1 person reveals sensitive information, the other must do the
same.
The more partners penetrate more deeply into each other’s lives, and gains greater
understanding of each other.
Breadth and depth of self-disclosure
According to Altman and Taylor, self-disclosure has 2 elements- breadth and depth.
As both of these increase, romantic partners become more committed to each other.
Metaphor of layers of onions is used to describe this.
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Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure has a vital role in a relationship beyond the initial attraction. But most people are
careful about what they disclose, at least to begin with. Used wisely and effectively it really can help
the course of true love run smoother.
Social Penetration theory
Major concept within Irwin Altman and Dalmas Taylor’s (1973) social penetration theory of
how relationships develop.
In romantic relationships, it involves the reciprocal exchange of information between
intimate partners. When 1 person reveals sensitive information, the other must do the
same.
The more partners penetrate more deeply into each other’s lives, and gains greater
understanding of each other.
Breadth and depth of self-disclosure
According to Altman and Taylor, self-disclosure has 2 elements- breadth and depth.
As both of these increase, romantic partners become more committed to each other.
Metaphor of layers of onions is used to describe this.
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