With 100% Correct Answers
Whatiisitheidifferenceibetweeni"secrets"iandi"avoidance"?i-
iCorrectiAnswer-Secrets:iConcealed,iUNKNOWNibyiotheriparty
Avoidance:iotheripartiknowsithatianiissueiexists,ibutiitiisiignoredibyiboth
iparties
WhatiisiPrivacyi(wheniiticomesitoisecretsiandiavoidance)i-
iCorrectiAnswer-
Itiisitheilargeriumbrellaithatisecretsiandiavoidanceistrategiesifalliunder.iI
tiisistrategiesitoimanageiboth
Areiallisecretsideceptive?i-iCorrectiAnswer-
No...ifitheisecretihasinothingitoidoiwithitheiotheriindividualiand/oriifithe
iinfoiisinotiimportantiorivitalitoitheirelationship
benefitsiofidisclosurei-iCorrectiAnswer--
Disclosureiisicathartic....theimoreitheibetter
-Problem-solvingicopingiisibetterithaniavoidanticoping
-Socialisupportiisiaibufferiagainstitheieffectsiofistress
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Personalityitraits....highidisclosurei=ihighiselfiesteem,ilifeisatisfaction,ia
ndipositiveieffectsithani"concealers"
Pennebaker'siworkioniSelfiDisclosurei-iCorrectiAnswer--
Sharingisecretsiorallyiorithruiwritingiisihealthipromoting
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Writingiaboutitraumaioveritimei=ifeweriphysicaliailments/improvediim
muneisystem
CritiquesiofiPennebaker'siworkioniSelfiDisclosuei-iCorrectiAnswer-
1.iThisimodeliisifaritooisimple
2.iWeidon'tijustidiscloseitoianyone
3.iIfisecretitoldiandisupportireceivediisinegative,ithisiwilliyieldinegativeie
ffects
4.iThoseithatisharedieverythingithatistressedithemiw/theiripartneriwere
ithoseiw/theimostianxietyiafterwards
(Kelly,i2009)iWeineeditoiexamineitheipurposeiofidisclosureitoidetermin
eiitsiimpacti-iCorrectiAnswer-
1.iIfionlyidiscloseiforicatharsis,ithereiisn'timuchiimpact
2.iEffectsidependionireactionifromiothers
3.iPositiveiimpactiifia)isenseioficlosureiorib)isense-making
,CostsiofiConcealment:iIndividualiCostsi-iCorrectiAnswer--
Wegner'si(1987)iWhiteiBeariExperimenti...."wheniyouitryinotitoithinkiab
outisomething,iyouithinkimoreiaboutiit"
-Preoccupationimodeliofisecrecyi(LaneiandiWegner,i1995):
1.iSecrecyicreatesithoughtisuppressioni(beingiaroundiothersiremindsiusi
ofitheisecret)
2.iThoughtisuppressioniiniturnicreatesiintrusiveithoughts
3.iIntrusiveithoughtsifosterisuppression
-FeveriModeli(Stiles,i1987)
1.iSecret-keepingiruminatesiinibodyiandimakesiusisickilikeiaifever
2.iDisclosureirestoresihealthi(cathartic)
Critique:itestediiniailabiwithoutiairespondingiparty
InterpersonaliCostsiofiConcealmenti-iCorrectiAnswer--
Avoidanceiandisecretsiassociatediw/irelationalidissatisfactioni(unlessiitii
sifori'relationshipiprotection')
-Canipreventidevelopingifulfillingirelationships
1.i"chillingieffect"
2.iConformityiinifamilies
, -Researchionidemand-withdrawalipatterns
1.iWhenioneipersoniwantsitoitalkiandianotheriwantsitoiwithdraw,ithatiis
iaibadithing
-ExplicitiAvoidancei(tabooitopics)iasimoreidetrimental
HowidoiperceivediRisksiImpactirevealmentistrategiesi(Afifii&iSteuber,i2
009)i...6istrategiesiforirevealingisecretsi-iCorrectiAnswer-
6iStrategiesiforiRevealingiSecrets
1.iPreparationiandiRehearsal
2.iDirectness
3.i3rdipartyiRevelations
4.iIncrementaliDisclosuresi(revealiailittleitoitestiaireaction)
5.iEntrapmenti(someoneiforcesiyouitoitellisomething...heatiofitheimom
ent)
6.iIndirectiMediumsi(telephone,imail,iemail,ietc)
**Greateririskiofidisclosure,igreateriuseiofiindirectistrategiesi(unlessiess
entialitoiidentityi...likeitheiLGBQimovement)
**Peopleiofteniuseimultipleistrategies
ReasonsitoiQuestionitheiIdeologyiofiOpennessi(CommunicationiPrivacyi
ManagementiAssumptions)i-iCorrectiAnswer-