NR 358 Final Exam Questions With
Complete Detailed Answers.
What is disenfranchised grief? - Answer -Experienced when a loss is or cannot be openly
acknowledged, publicly mourned, or socially supported
ex: overdose, suicide
What is disappearance grief? - Answer -term coined by Dr.Kronk's friend Patty O'Shea
-experienced when your loved one dies without your being able to see them, speak to them,
comfort them, say goodbye to them, or have a service for them.
ex: COVID losses
How should we as nurses react to grieving patients/families? - Answer •Don't Judge.
•Employ empathy.
•Understand that grief is not rational.
•Keep your voice calm and soothing.
•Affirm the other person.
•Be honest.
•Be direct.
•Suggest options.
What are the steps of "healing toward wholeness"? - Answer 1.Explore your feelings about
loss.
2.Learn to recognize your unique red flags.
3.Practice setting limits, avoid unnecessary stress.
4.Cultivate a personal support system, sense of community.
5.Create periods of rest and renewal.
6.Develop healthy habits: eating, sleeping, and
7.Exercise
8.Take time for reflection, alone or in at least 1 meaningful conversation with a trusted friend
, •Has Intent... what do you want to accomplish
•Repeated
•Not a "habit"
•Meaningful
•Has Impact
•A good Ritual is Simple
•Easy to repeat
•Accessible when needed
Helpful vs. Unhelpful comments to the grieving - Answer UNHELPFUL:
I know exactly how you're feeling.
I can imagine how you are feeling.
I understand how you are feeling.
I'm always here for you, call me if you need anything.
You should be over it by now. It's time you moved on.
You had so many years together. You are so lucky.
At least you have your children.
You're young, you'll meet someone else.
At least her suffering is over. She is in a better place now.
He lived a really long and full life.
How old was he?
HELPFUL:
I am sorry that you are going through this painful process.
It must be hard to accept that this has happened.
It's OK to grieve and be really angry with God and anyone else.
I can bring dinner over either Tuesday or Friday. Which will be better for you?
Grieving takes time. Don't feel pushed to hurry through it.
I did not know __________, will you tell me about him? What was your relationship like?
It's not your fault. You did everything you could do.
What's the scariest part about facing the future alone without __________?
Complete Detailed Answers.
What is disenfranchised grief? - Answer -Experienced when a loss is or cannot be openly
acknowledged, publicly mourned, or socially supported
ex: overdose, suicide
What is disappearance grief? - Answer -term coined by Dr.Kronk's friend Patty O'Shea
-experienced when your loved one dies without your being able to see them, speak to them,
comfort them, say goodbye to them, or have a service for them.
ex: COVID losses
How should we as nurses react to grieving patients/families? - Answer •Don't Judge.
•Employ empathy.
•Understand that grief is not rational.
•Keep your voice calm and soothing.
•Affirm the other person.
•Be honest.
•Be direct.
•Suggest options.
What are the steps of "healing toward wholeness"? - Answer 1.Explore your feelings about
loss.
2.Learn to recognize your unique red flags.
3.Practice setting limits, avoid unnecessary stress.
4.Cultivate a personal support system, sense of community.
5.Create periods of rest and renewal.
6.Develop healthy habits: eating, sleeping, and
7.Exercise
8.Take time for reflection, alone or in at least 1 meaningful conversation with a trusted friend
, •Has Intent... what do you want to accomplish
•Repeated
•Not a "habit"
•Meaningful
•Has Impact
•A good Ritual is Simple
•Easy to repeat
•Accessible when needed
Helpful vs. Unhelpful comments to the grieving - Answer UNHELPFUL:
I know exactly how you're feeling.
I can imagine how you are feeling.
I understand how you are feeling.
I'm always here for you, call me if you need anything.
You should be over it by now. It's time you moved on.
You had so many years together. You are so lucky.
At least you have your children.
You're young, you'll meet someone else.
At least her suffering is over. She is in a better place now.
He lived a really long and full life.
How old was he?
HELPFUL:
I am sorry that you are going through this painful process.
It must be hard to accept that this has happened.
It's OK to grieve and be really angry with God and anyone else.
I can bring dinner over either Tuesday or Friday. Which will be better for you?
Grieving takes time. Don't feel pushed to hurry through it.
I did not know __________, will you tell me about him? What was your relationship like?
It's not your fault. You did everything you could do.
What's the scariest part about facing the future alone without __________?
