loving - Answers deep, intense, emotional experience comprised of intimacy, caring, and attachment
storge - Answers FRIENDLY. stable, predictable, rooted in friendship
agape - Answers FORGIVING. patient, selfless, unconditional
pragma - Answers PRACTICAL. Logical, common sense, rational
ludus - Answers GAME PLAYING. uncommitted, fun, game like
Eros - Answers ROMANTIC, sentimental, idealistic
Elements of relationship - Answers 1) perception
2) diversity
3) choice
4) commitment
5) tension
6) communication
factors of attraction - Answers 1) proximity
2) atttractiveness
3) similarity
4) reciprocal liking
5) resources
different types of love - Answers storge, agape, pragma, ludus, eros
relationship maintenance - Answers positivity, assurances, sharing tasks, acceptance, self disclosure,
talking, networking
relationship dissolving - Answers betrayal, infidelity, deception, jealousy, intrusion, violence
family - Answers network of people who share their lives over time bound by love, marriage,
commitment, history
characteristics of family - Answers sense of family identity, specific communication style,
intense/complex emotion, shared history, shared genetics, juggle multiple and competing roles
, types of families - Answers nuclear, extended, step, cohabitants, single parent
family communication pattern theory - Answers theory that there are 2 dimensions of family
communication: CONVERSATION and CONFORMITY.
conversation orientation - Answers degree to which how open families are with communicating their
beliefs, ideas, thoughts
conformity orientation - Answers degree to which families believe their communication should
emphasize their similarity or diversity in attitudes, values, and beliefs
consensual families - Answers high conversation, high conformity. We can share information, but should
have similar beliefs.
pluralistic families - Answers high conversation, low conformity. We can share, you are entititled to your
own beliefs.
protective families - Answers low conversation, high conformity. Don't share and must obey family
beliefs
laissez-faire families - Answers low conversation, low conformity. Not concerned for eachother, low
caring, low support, detached relationships
conflict - Answers process that occurs when people perceive that they have different goals or someone
is interfering with their objectives
characteristics of conflict - Answers 1) perception
2)clashing goals
3)process unfolds over time
4) dynamic- unpredictable
conflict in close relationships - Answers 1) irritating partner behaviors
2) disagreements about relationship rules
3) personality clashes
power - Answers ability to influence/control people or events. defines how partner relate to eachother,
make decisions, and whose goals will prevail in conflict
characteristics of power - Answers 1) always present
2) can be ethical/unethical
3) it's granted by people/groups