Marriage & Family - Chapter 5 - Love and Intimacy Questions and Answers Graded A+
What is the term for the physical, emotional, sexual, intellectual, or social affection one person holds for
another? - Answers love
What is the term for a close relationship where mutual acceptance, nurturance, and trust are shared at
some level? - Answers intimacy
What is the term for an emotional and social bind that forms between one person and another? -
Answers attachment
Humans are considered highly motivated to form ___ through their lives. - Answers attachments
Are attachments crucial to human existence? - Answers Yes
What are essentially the emotional context of those relationships we all have in life? - Answers
attachments
What is one of the very first symptoms that you are falling in love as adults? - Answers you begin to feel
better about yourself when you are with the other person
___ develops along with love. - Answers Intimacy
___ requires that you have the ability to be your true self with the other person. - Answers Intimacy
Typically when two strangers meet they ___. - Answers self-disclose
What is the term for the process or revealing the true nature of oneself to another person? - Answers
self-disclosure
Once you or the other person open up and share something ___, you enter an emotional mine field of
sorts. - Answers vulnerable
There is a greater chance of intimacy developing when the other person ___ back to you, or reciprocates
your efforts to connect. - Answers self-discloses
What is the term for the level which is safe conversation about superficial things (places, time,
weather)? - Answers Shop Talk
Once self-disclosure take place, the ___ comes into play. - Answers risk factor
If self-disclosure is mutually reciprocated then ___ may begin. - Answers intimacy
If self-disclosure is not reciprocated then ___ typically will not develop. - Answers intimacy
Who is perhaps the most quoted researcher on love with his six love types? - Answers John Lee
, Who assumed that we all shared six core components of love and that our current loving relationship
can be assessed and measured? - Answers John Lee
Who claimed that there are qualities of love types—some more long-lasting and supportive of
relationships and some pathological and defective which inhibit relationships? - Answers John Lee
Which type of love is the love of sensuality, sex, taste, touch, sight, hearing, and smell? - Answers eros
love
Which type of love is neither good nor bad? - Answers eros love
Which type of love is simply part of the overall love composite we experience with another person? -
Answers eros love
Which type of love is the love of your best friend in a normal casual context of life? - Answers storge
love
Which type of love is calm and peaceful, surprising to some who might have simply hung out together at
one point but suddenly discovered that their friendship deepened and became more important than
other friendships? - Answers storge love
Which type of love is the love of details and qualities in the other person? - Answers pragma love
___ lovers are satisfied and attracted by the other because of their characteristics (athleticism,
intelligence, wealth). - Answers Pragma
___ lovers feel love at a rational level, thinking to a certain degree about the good deal they are getting
in the relationship. - Answers Pragma
Which type of love is the love that is selfless, other-focused, and seeks to serve others rather than
receive from others? - Answers agape love
Which type of love is identified across cultures and religions? - Answers agape love
What are the two defective love types identified by John Lee that come from a damaged sense of self? -
Answers (1) ludis
(2) mania
Which type of love is an immature love that is more of a tease than a legitimate loving relationship? -
Answers ludis love
___ lovers, trick their mates into believing that they are sincerely in love, while all the while grooming
one, two, or even three other lovers at the same time. - Answers Ludic
___ lovers artificially stroke their sense of self-worth by laying a cruel game on their lovers who end up
feeling used and betrayed. - Answers Ludic
What is the term for the physical, emotional, sexual, intellectual, or social affection one person holds for
another? - Answers love
What is the term for a close relationship where mutual acceptance, nurturance, and trust are shared at
some level? - Answers intimacy
What is the term for an emotional and social bind that forms between one person and another? -
Answers attachment
Humans are considered highly motivated to form ___ through their lives. - Answers attachments
Are attachments crucial to human existence? - Answers Yes
What are essentially the emotional context of those relationships we all have in life? - Answers
attachments
What is one of the very first symptoms that you are falling in love as adults? - Answers you begin to feel
better about yourself when you are with the other person
___ develops along with love. - Answers Intimacy
___ requires that you have the ability to be your true self with the other person. - Answers Intimacy
Typically when two strangers meet they ___. - Answers self-disclose
What is the term for the process or revealing the true nature of oneself to another person? - Answers
self-disclosure
Once you or the other person open up and share something ___, you enter an emotional mine field of
sorts. - Answers vulnerable
There is a greater chance of intimacy developing when the other person ___ back to you, or reciprocates
your efforts to connect. - Answers self-discloses
What is the term for the level which is safe conversation about superficial things (places, time,
weather)? - Answers Shop Talk
Once self-disclosure take place, the ___ comes into play. - Answers risk factor
If self-disclosure is mutually reciprocated then ___ may begin. - Answers intimacy
If self-disclosure is not reciprocated then ___ typically will not develop. - Answers intimacy
Who is perhaps the most quoted researcher on love with his six love types? - Answers John Lee
, Who assumed that we all shared six core components of love and that our current loving relationship
can be assessed and measured? - Answers John Lee
Who claimed that there are qualities of love types—some more long-lasting and supportive of
relationships and some pathological and defective which inhibit relationships? - Answers John Lee
Which type of love is the love of sensuality, sex, taste, touch, sight, hearing, and smell? - Answers eros
love
Which type of love is neither good nor bad? - Answers eros love
Which type of love is simply part of the overall love composite we experience with another person? -
Answers eros love
Which type of love is the love of your best friend in a normal casual context of life? - Answers storge
love
Which type of love is calm and peaceful, surprising to some who might have simply hung out together at
one point but suddenly discovered that their friendship deepened and became more important than
other friendships? - Answers storge love
Which type of love is the love of details and qualities in the other person? - Answers pragma love
___ lovers are satisfied and attracted by the other because of their characteristics (athleticism,
intelligence, wealth). - Answers Pragma
___ lovers feel love at a rational level, thinking to a certain degree about the good deal they are getting
in the relationship. - Answers Pragma
Which type of love is the love that is selfless, other-focused, and seeks to serve others rather than
receive from others? - Answers agape love
Which type of love is identified across cultures and religions? - Answers agape love
What are the two defective love types identified by John Lee that come from a damaged sense of self? -
Answers (1) ludis
(2) mania
Which type of love is an immature love that is more of a tease than a legitimate loving relationship? -
Answers ludis love
___ lovers, trick their mates into believing that they are sincerely in love, while all the while grooming
one, two, or even three other lovers at the same time. - Answers Ludic
___ lovers artificially stroke their sense of self-worth by laying a cruel game on their lovers who end up
feeling used and betrayed. - Answers Ludic
